THE CONNECTOR
The greatest gift of life is friendship – Hubert H. Humphrey.
If your Main Character Archetype is The Connector, this is a sign that you want your Next Chapter to be about relationships. Relationships with others and with yourself. You seek friendship and community - whatever that looks like to you. It may be reconnecting with old friends, making new friends, deepening a romantic relationship, or joining a community project or even a global cause. The important thing is that you explore what connection means to you and begin to prioritise time with others in your daily, weekly and monthly schedule and make time to connect with yourself.
You crave deeper, richer connections with others and with yourself.
You’re done with small talk and surface-level friendships. You want soul-level connection. Whether it’s friendships, sisterhood, or a sense of belonging, you’re craving community and closeness like never before, as well as a desire to truly understand who you are.
Read on to discover more about The Connector.
Connector Essence
The Connector is the archetype of meaningful relationships and soulful belonging. At her heart, she values depth over surface, choosing to cultivate bonds that are genuine, supportive, and lasting. She knows the importance of knowing herself deeply, of feeling connected to the people and things that matter to her, and of cultivating a connection to the world itself. She thrives when she is surrounded by people who inspire her, and when she creates spaces where others feel welcomed, safe, and celebrated -whether people or animals.
Her gift is weaving threads between people, ideas, and opportunities. Whether she’s gathering friends around her table, building community through her work, or offering a listening ear, The Connector reminds us that life is richer when it’s shared.
When she honours this energy, she isn’t just “busy being social” — she is intentional about who and what she allows into her world. Her power comes from creating connections that feel nourishing, not draining, and from building a circle that sees her and loves her for who she is.
Connector Strengths
Empathy & emotional intelligence
Loyalty & heart-led presence
A gift for gathering people and creating safe spaces
Ability to create meaningful experiences
A deep, unwavering sense of self
Desires: Belonging, shared experience, emotional depth
Wants to step into: A chapter filled with soul-aligned people and true intimacy
Power move: Rebuild connection with your own needs first, then invite others in.
Mantra: “The deeper I connect to myself, the deeper I connect to others.”
When You Don’t Honour This Energy
When you ignore your Connector energy:
You feel isolated, lonely, or overlooked
You forget your value and worth
You sense something is missing, but might not know what
You crave connection, but begin to doubt your ability to find it
You feel unmotivated and stuck in a rut with surface-level connections that feel draining and unfulfilling
You overgive or overshare in a bid to receive the intimacy and connection you desire
You pretend, perform, or diminish yourself in order to fit in
When You Do Honour This Energy
When you embrace your Connector energy:
You feel fulfilled, content, and know yourself deeply
You are energised by being surrounded by people and moments that matter
You enjoy shared laughter and deep conversations
You feel more confident and motivated
You feel a sense of belonging and a renewed sense of value and purpose
You feel open-hearted, deeply seen, and supported
You create safe spaces that allow others to open fully and be themselves
You stop pretending and performing, and start belonging
Working With Your Sister Archetypes
There are times when we have goals or tasks that lean into our sister archetypes. Here’s how they work with The Connector:
The Luminary brings beauty and elegance to gatherings.
The Seeker introduces new experiences to enjoy together.
The Creator adds fresh projects and collaborations to share.
The Nurturer ensures care and warmth infuse every relationship.
Famous Connectors
Jane Goodall — offered wisdom and compassion that continues to unite people.
Michelle Obama — known for wit, warmth, and friendship.
Jane Fonda — known for championing female friendships and causes.
Shonda Rhimes — builds stories and opportunities that bring people together on and off the screen.
You're stepping into a chapter of deep connection, meaningful relationships, and emotional intimacy.
Ready to go Deeper?
Download the free workbook below to get journaling prompts and simple tips to begin to activate and embody The Connector.
Your Next Step
You’ve learned about your Archetype, downloaded the workbook, and now it’s time for the next step.
It’s time to take Action and design a life that lights you up.
Only you can choose. Only you can take the first step towards your Next Chapter.
Are you Ready?